“Emotions are like waves; allow them to come and go, but you must control the tide.” Maximilian Kikwembe, Swahili Apologist Here are the five emotional regulation techniques that you must master. It is impossible to completely avoid toxic people. You will need to deal with them regularly and effectively. However, you can minimize how often…
“Success is not absence of failure.” Maximilian Kikwembe, Swahili Apologist Fear is part of human nature. What is your greatest fear? For me my greatest fear is fear itself. This statement might sound too philosophical but let us digest it together. In life, there are many events, circumstances or situations that we never wish to…
“Real rejection is real motivation.” Maximilian Kikwembe, Swahili Apologist I am strongly convinced that in life you will always hear more Nos than Yesses. In fact, that is the reality in life. Jesus is the testimony for this when He says, “If the world hates you, realize that it hated me first” (John 15:18). Aristotle…
“As the flame of experience burns brightly within us, it truly illuminates the path to understanding, igniting the torch of knowledge.” Maximilian Kikwembe, Swahili Apologist Oscar Wilde once said that, “Experience is the hardest kind of teacher. It gives you the test first and the lesson afterward.” One day I went to visit a certain…
“Life’s blueprint is an intricate design, where the strength of its foundation lies in the choices we make and the goals we pursue.” Maximilian Kikwembe, Swahili Apologist John C. Maxwell once said that, “A dream worth pursuing is a picture and blueprint of a person’s purpose and potential.” A life blueprint or plan can be…
“Discovering our true motivations is like finding the compass that guides us towards our most authentic and fulfilling journey.” Maximilian Kikwembe, Swahili Apologist Discovering what truly motivates you is like unraveling the secrets of a hidden treasure. It’s an extraordinary journey of self-awareness, a captivating quest that allows you to unearth the gems buried deep…
“Embrace the power of self-reflection, for it is not a journey of judgement, but a quest for understanding and acceptance of our own complexity.” Maximilian Kikwembe, Swahili Apologist There is Swahili saying that “Mali bila daftari huisha bila habari” which means that, “property without register ends without information.” I have used this Wahenga saying to…
“Embrace change, unleash your greatness, rewrite your destiny. Change is the wind beneath your wings.” Maximilian Kikwembe, Swahili Apologist Embarking on the journey of self-change is an admirable pursuit, but it is one riddled with challenges that often lead to disappointment and setbacks. In this post, we will explore nine key reasons why most people…
“In the kingdom of silence, the mind finds clarity, peace envelops the heart, and the spirit finds a profound rejuvenation. Within the depths of silence, secrets are revealed, healing is found, and wisdom emerges.” Maximilian Kikwembe, Swahili Apologist Research is fairly clear that too much noise is bad for us. But does that mean that…
“Commitment and Determination is the bridge between goals and accomplishments.” Maximilian Kikwembe, Swahili Apologist Life dreams have the capacity to lift our spirits, motivate our desires, and provide us with a sense of direction. They reflect our deepest desires, challenging us to aspire above our existing circumstances. However, pursuing our ambitions is rarely an easy…
